I am sure it is a surprise to no one who reads my blog that the last six months has been a challenging time for me. I have been relying more than I ever imagined on the kindness of my friends, family and my WordPress community. This poem is a thank to all of you who have offered support and caring as I write my way through this journey.
I am particularly grateful to one particular member of the WP family whose keen eye, sharp observations, compassion and the occasional kick in the ass have gotten me through some almost unbearable days. I hope he recognizes his wise words here. His friendship is a gift I often do not feel like I have earned.
I know that I apologize too much
For the things I say
For the things I write
For the things I do
For not caring enough
For caring too much
For bleeding on the screen
A little too much
For breathing
For existing
Past the age of 30
Which I actually never thought would happen
And that somewhere deep down I don’t feel the universe
Quite approves of and may demand retribution for
I am trying to stop apologizing
For anything and everything
And instead start expressing my gratitude
When you listen
When you read my words
When you forgive my actions
Accept the caring I do have to offer
Hand me the bandages
Allow me the space to breath
Encourage me to keep existing
To remind me that I have gravity and that my writing speaks to people
To hold vigil while I continue this painful, wrenching rebirth
That is full of danger and tears and dark thoughts and darker humor
And for understanding that we write because it fucking hurts
Yes, this is exactly how I feel too and I understand you perfectly Christine. We write because we hurt and there is no one to tell to. Thank you for this.
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You are very welcome Yassy. Know that your voice is heard and cherished here.
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Oh! Thank you so much Christine.
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Hope you’re feeling better. Just enjoy being you.
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Thank you. I am putting one foot in front of the other and trying to write my joys as well as my pain. Although I suspect my pain yells a little louder than those perfect quiet moments of peace. 🙂
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Of course, we are all like that. Sometimes we have bad days too and have to write to express. The best part of it is that many won’t know it’s personal but you have been able to share it too.
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*Hugs to Christine*
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Thank you Phoebe! II deeply appreciate having you in my corner.
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🙂 🙂
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😛
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And it fucking hurts to write!
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Thank you dear, dear friend for everything. You remind me that its still important to get up in the morning and important to keep putting one foot– and one word– in front of the other and that it is okay to cut myself a little slack. Thank you for letting me know over and over again that you see me and that you hear me and that you think there is an other side that I will come out on.
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You are damn right. Thank you for being you. Sunshine 😁💞
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❤ ❤
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A blessing to have all of you that read more than the words and help dissipate the dark days…I believe that is the real art….in the reading. Grateful to you Christine, and all others too.
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Vidur– you have a beautiful soul that is one of my touchstones on WordPress. Thank you for always seeing below the surface and writing so beautifully about it.
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Thank you Christine and grateful for your thinking so.
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Sometimes all we need is for someone to listen.
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Indeed. There is great healing in being heard and being seen.
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I started writing something then my battery went dead 🙂
You amazing WP writers have enriched my life beyond anything I imagined, and you are a big part of that. There are times I’m only crying, and you put voice to how I, and others feel, so beautifully. Thank you. Praying your dark days become less and less 💐 and those freaking migraines leave you alone!!
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Fabulous.
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Thank you. My friend Olde Punk is very wise.
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❤ im so glad youve found comfort in this wp family ❤
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Me too!
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