loss stacked up
like firewood gathered for a long cold winter on the front porch
death and abandonment so frequent
that loss deserved it’s own theme song in the soundtrack of her life
there had been those who had touched her
against her will out of sexual perversion
or perhaps out of sadism
did it really matter which?
who had enjoyed watching her powerlessness
had enjoyed watching her squirm
had enjoyed hurting and humiliating her
when she was young and unable to protect herself
with fast feet, camouflage or razor tongue,
her bubbling rage ready to explode
to incinerate
tumultuous long-term relationship
with an alcoholic and drug addict
because she thrived in the chaos
knew what was expected of her there
she didn’t know what to do when the waters were calm, quiet
always waiting for the other shoe to drop
for the disaster lurking around the corner to happen
to catch her unaware
there had been tear-filled heartbreak nights
spent playing melissa etheridge
over and over on dark porches
chest ripped open
bleeding heart exposed to chill air
pain oozing out of her pores
episodes of depression
of anxiety
mood swings so extreme
that her will to survive
thinned out
became tenuous
long nights spent contemplating
how easy it would be to walk out that 13th floor window and just fall
parental guilt that was breathtaking
as she struggled
not to become either of her damaged parents
no blueprint for how to do this well
how to do this right
trying to inhabit the middle
rather than the edges
trying to break generational patterns
not repeat the legacies she had inherited
years spent developing the fine art
of psychic self-harm
learning to inflict pain
faster
harder
deeper
than life ever could
helping her maintain the illusion of control
reassuring herself that she was
strong
stoic
up to the task of survival
life had not always been easy
or kind to her
but she does not want
need
your pity
there is no room for pity
in this game of survival
where the stakes are quite literally
sanity or madness
life or death
remember that she is a badass bitch
that fight courses through her veins
that her heartbeat whispers survival
that she breathes fire
and she has only just begun
slaying demons
© 2017 Christine Elizabeth Ray – All rights Reserved
BRAVA!!! Christine this is amazing. raw and very powerful. I love this.
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You are always so kind Eric! It is very raw and very personal.
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It shows! And I am always a fan of this type of Anthem. I believe everyone should be able to do what we do..It might not take away the pain of what has happened…maybe won’t even heal the wounds..but we pass on our experiences to others who might sit and silently nod their heads line by line and say, “This is me…this happened to me…and I can recover.” It’s fantastic!
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Thanks Eric. I decided two things when I started this blog– that my silence didn’t serve me anymore and if my voice helped other people find theirs then I would try to be as raw and honest and real as I could be. Sometimes these pieces are as hard to write as they are to read but it still matters to me every time somebody tells me that something I wrote resonated with them.
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Yes! That happens to me every now and then, so I know exactly what you mean. It’s as if a small part of you has gone with them into whatever they are fighting and helped fight along!
Keep it up, Christine. The world needs more of this!
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Great post 😁😄
If you can check mine https://platform34.wordpress.com/2017/04/20/a-girl-with-curls/
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